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The Transformative Power of the Empty Tomb

April 24, 2019 By Val Gonzales 2 Comments

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Introduction Contrary to what many would think, Easter is a time of joyful celebration. Yes, the suffering of Jesus, the Christ occurred which caused His death by crucifixion, a method used for an ordinary criminal. He was betrayed by one of His early followers for 30 pieces of silver, equivalent to about 90 -day wage. […]

Filed Under: Easter, Resurrection Day Tagged With: 3 levels of change, Jesus Christ, Jesus is Alive, John, Mary Magdalene, Peter, resurrection, the disciples, the empty tomb, the resurrection's transforming power, transformative power of Christ, Val Gonzales

Reflection on Thanksgiving – What I Am Thankful For

November 25, 2018 By Val Gonzales Leave a Comment

Thanksgiving Day

Thanksgiving is a season when families would gather and celebrate. Often the gathering is about food and more food. This is also an opportunity for many to have a reprieve from the rigors of work as the days are considered public holidays. But aside from the turkey and stuffing what do we really celebrate? Tradition […]

Filed Under: Life Reflections, Thanksgiving Tagged With: basic needs, joy, life, loving relationships, making a difference to others, opportunity for wholeness, thanksgiving 2018

On Fatherhood and Fathering

June 18, 2018 By Val Gonzales Leave a Comment

Several years ago I came across the book, “Fatherless America” by D. Blankenhorn. It brought me to sadness on so many levels. First, the children. What happens to them as they grow up without a father to guide and to provide? Secondly, the society. How will the greater community be impacted by the phenomenon? As […]

Filed Under: Parenting Tagged With: absentee dads, blessedness of manhood, D. Blankenhorn, fatherhood, fathering, Fatherless America, growing children, Happy Father's Day, parenting, Singapore

The Menacing Duo – Depression and Addiction

June 9, 2018 By Val Gonzales 4 Comments

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Presley, Jackson, Houston, Williams, Spade, Bourdain- and the list goes on… Several years ago I was grief-stricken when my favourite singer Elvis Presley died. It was also surprising to learn that he battled depression fueled by an addiction to several substances including alcohol. Then I read of Michael Jackson who was hooked on opiates due […]

Filed Under: Depression, Depression and Addiction Tagged With: affairs of the soul, Anthony Bourdain, comorbidity, God, Kate Spade, mental health, Michael Jackson, Resource Greater than Ourselves, Robin Williams, seek help depression, spiritual matters, Whitney Houston

The Pain of Grief

September 19, 2017 By Val Gonzales 1 Comment

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Death is a human experience that levels us all. Everyone will die. But before one’s appointment with death comes, someone close to the person will die either through drastic means or prolonged illness. And the common human response of emotional nature to losing someone who is loved is grief. It is accurate therefore to say […]

Filed Under: Grief Tagged With: acceptance, anger, bargaining, community, death, denial, depression, E Kubler-Ross, grief, pain of grief, stages of grief, unconditional love

The Lotus of Life

August 18, 2017 By Val Gonzales Leave a Comment

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The lotus has been a powerfully attractive object to me. Everywhere I go whenever I see it I tend to pause and watch it more intently. And where we are right now in our lives, the Lotus seems to be a ubiquitous sight. Here is my reflection of life-based upon the lotus: life in terms […]

Filed Under: Life Reflections Tagged With: lotus, lowliness, openness, shortness, timelessness, usefulness

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Val Gonzales is an educator, minister, psychotherapist, and amateur photographer. He has served in Southeast Asia and North America. He is happily married with two well-adjusted grown-up children.

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